Archive for December 2007
Happy New Year’s Eve to all. It’s been a good year for Dan and me and I think the next year promises more interesting events.
My resolution for the new year is to continue the hard work work we did in
2006 2007 and also to work seriously on my foundation in French. For Noel next year, I’d like to be able to speak and understand more with Dan’s family and friends.
More posts to come in the new year!
Happy Christmas Eve!
Part one the family visiting tour is nearing completion. It’s funny how time moves slower AND faster when you are outside of your normal routine. It’s been a good trip to Florida so far – seeing family, the beach and awesome weather, basketball game in Orlando, seeing more family, and everything else we’ve done (that I can’t think of at the moment). We even got in trips to Vallarta’s for Mexican and Bahama Breeze for Calypso shrimp pasta. We stopped into the company office in Tampa on Thursday and visited some friends and saw how some of the projects have been going since we left.
Now we are in Inverness (since Saturday evening), so we aren’t going out here and there like we do in St. Petersburg/Tampa. Yesterday Dan, Liz and I wrapped presents. The dogs tried to help, but really just stamped on the paper and got in the way, per usual. Today we are finishing last minute shopping while the stores are open, Mom’s at work, but I think Amanda, Liz, Dan and I will get some lunch out somewhere.
The boots I ordered for myself in October, that have been sitting in the laundry room here along with the small mountain of Christmas gifts I ordered online, fit great, yay! They are basic black, come to a couple inches under the knee, from La Canadienne (made in Canada!). I think they will be warm enough, considering they aren’t snow boots, and they are supposed to be waterproof.
I also bought a long-sleeved wool undershirt, that turned out thinner than I had hoped, but cuter than I expected. You never know for sure what you will get when you order online, but I am really happy so far. I was thrilled with the Colombia fleece jackets – I ordered one for my father and one for Dan and they were an awesome find. Good colors in person, good quality, and most importantly, good sizing for long arms. This denim Vera Bradley purse I found on Amazon was perfect for my grandmother, she really liked it too. We don’t exchange gifts here until tomorrow, then again on the 26th with Dan’s family – I hope the snow is still around!!!
It’s hard to post with so much family here, but I hope everyone out there is having a nice holiday, whatever you are up to today!
“Everything is all right, and everybody has to do exactly what he does.”
So I finished the book a week ago but wanted to give myself some time to further digest it. I’ll start out by saying that this review will not do this book any justice. Not because I didn’t like it, or that I couldn’t try to create a worthy review, I probably could if I did more research and wrote a paper about it. It’s a book that is both pop culture and as deep as you’d like to take it. I think I could read it 5 more times and get a slightly different impression from it.
To briefly summarize, which makes the plot sound more bizarre than it really comes across, the biggest main character, Billy Pilgrim, is an optometrist, WWII soldier, father, student, child who has become unstuck in time. That is, he randomly moves (as does the story along with him) through different points in his life with no idea what moment he will next live/relive. He also gets abducted by aliens and lives in one of their zoos for a time. Sounds strange but it works out surprisingly well. I think the harder thing to deal with in this book is the themes. War, death, the human condition(?!)
I read this book, read 1, since I’ll read it again, with that feeling you have before you pull a bandaid off. You are so afraid the story is going to take you somewhere very sad, or horrible, that you can’t move through it very fast, but you can’t put it down either.
“My God–what have they done to you, lad? This isn’t a man. It’s a broken kite.”
Kurt Vonnegut was he himself in WWII, and he survived the firebombing of Dresden where 135,000 people were killed. The atomic bomb dropped on Hiroshima killed 71,370 people. While I had heard about Dresden being destroyed in the war, it doesn’t get as much historical attention since (only) conventional bombs were dropped by the Royal Air Force and the United States Army Air Force. I’m sure he had things he wanted to “get out” about this time in his life. As usual, the wit is thick; Vonnegut is a master of this.
“At that time, they were teaching that there was absolutely no difference between anybody. They may be teaching that still.”
“All this responsibility at such an early age made her a bitchy flibbertigibbet.”
I highly recommend this novel for everyone to read. I can see more and more, as this is the second novel of his I’ve read, why he is regarded as such a genius.
work days left until Christmas holidays!! I’m feeling pretty good about work and life at the moment. I’m excited. Up until just yesterday or today I was still feeling pressure – there was a big deadline for work last Friday, the flying home on our own expense, and the gifts to buy, etc… but everything is on schedule and I’m thrilled to be seeing everyone soon.
I was on Blogher yesterday, and I had an emotional response to a post. It was a post from a younger woman who had not been home for Christmas in 6 years, how she hoped for this every year, and to be with her boyfriend, and someday a family of her own. Instead she was going to spend the holiday in the city with her friend and go out on the town. And you know, it sounded great, she sounded sad, but compensating for it in fine fashion.
Well I had this emotional trigger to this and I was thinking “WHY?!?!” This woman sounded like she had the financial, mental and emotional strength to see her family, why was she not making it happen? And not for one or two years, but for six straight years?!
So I discussed this with Dan, and he said, well it’s a blog, people like to expound about their life, that’s what a blogs usually about, and why was I surprised?
And he’s right.
I thought about it more, and I think the reason I have this trigger (and it’s a new one for me), is that in the last four years I’ve had 3 significant people in my life die. Four years ago, my grandfather, two years ago, my other grandfather (with whom I lived with one year while I was in college), then this year my Mother’s second husband, stepfather. These were all great men, who brought the world (at least my world) wisdom and strength, and they have left big holes in my family – as
all loved ones who die tend to do. I think this irrational response I had (I really don’t care what people do on Christmas
as long as they are happy) is because I know that these people I’ve lost will never get the chance to make an appearance for Christmas again.
And I’m sure I’ll miss a Christmas here or there, due to other trips, or work, or finances, or my own family, or just because I want to, and I need to accept that this is okay behavior too.
are ruining my boyfriend’s life. Or so he says. hehe.
Since I’ve been introduced into the blog thing, we both have set up subscriptions to various blogs with the Google reader. It’s easy to organize and keeps you up-to-date, what more could you want? He likes basketball stuff, I like books; we both have the subscriptions to engadget and a few other tech blogs. Anyone who visits Engadget knows they post 6-10 times an hour (maybe an exaggeration, maybe not). Every now and then when we are both playing on our respective laptops I hear him moan, he can’t keep with all these posts. I can’t help but giggle.